Sunday, November 18, 2012

grotesque excuse making


Re-Packaging the Harmful Effects of Capitalism


Key words for Czechs and Slovaks: bagatelizovat, kapitalismus


A friend recently sent me a link to two professors who are in the business of justifying the consequences of capitalism.
They do not represent themselves in that way; however, I believe that is what they are doing.
Women today are choosing not to marry. They find that men lack the attributes needed in a committed relationship. At any rate, that is one way to describe it.

Another way is this: due to the demands of the workplace, and the psychic shocks of unemployment, men are increasingly unable to cope---not through any inner failure or inner incapacity, but due to the genuine stress of their real situation. This is not an individual failure, but a social failure. The structures which allow men to develop emotionally do not exist.

Brave new women who make such choices!

Well, not really. Both men and women are reacting to fundamental changes which have their source in the decisions of a small minority of (mostly) men who own the wealth of our society. This „new social trend“ is nothing but the consequence of decisions made by a small group of people; it's got nothing to do with a new „freedom“.


Nor is it anything new. In the past, the poor male could not afford to marry. We can see the fragile economic life of families in nineteenth century novels. My choice to make the point now would be George Elliot's „Mill on the Floss“. The father wants nothing but that his son should have the vocabulary and intelligence to do battle with lawyers, but the father cannot choose wisely. His choice of an education for his son is overly influenced by the opinions of a richer man, and the father's bankruptcy sets into motion a series of steps which destroy his children.

This is a tale about parents and children---parents who want their children to be happy. And it depicts a family which is destroyed by inequality, injustice which is at the heart of that society.

Nor are the new apologists for the social and emotional consequences of capitalism seeing through the appearance to the essence of things. The destruction of the 1950s style family is not merely the destruction of an artificial form of organization; it is also the destruction of the life-hopes of millions of people.

I have no wish to worship or justify the peculiar sort of family structure which Americans wrongly believed to be the essence of social relationships. However, the changes in capitalism which have forced a change in sexual relationships have also made it harder simply to have deep friendships. It is not merely the 1950's style family which is under attack. It is our very personal lives themselves---and there is no better example of this than „Facebook“--which makes your friendships and your free time” commodities whereby already existing class divisions are intensified.


18 November 2012

An after-thought: Communism and Social Relationships

Living in Central Europe, I have heard people say, and I have read that during the period called “communism”, there was more time for personal relationships and families. Today everyone is busier. They may be, in some sense, freer, but overall they have less time to enjoy friends and families.

And, I have to add immediately that I am in no way desirous that that old form of society should return. What is called “communism” was not democratic and it meant great suffering for many people.

Nonetheless, our current social and economic system also has its victims, and they are uncounted and countless.
However, my point now is to speak about, write about, think about the character of “Tomas”in Kundera's novel, “The Unbearable Lightness of Being.”
Tomas loses his job as a surgeon because he was outspoken about the hypocrisy of communists.

He agrees with his wife to move to a small village to save her from the intrusions of the secret police.

And, in the end, he has a sort of life in a small village, a life which provides him a degree of happiness or contentment. As he says at the book's end, when asked by Tereza, his wife, whether he regrets the fact that he gave up his career: a career is bullshit.

But, the same terrible system which prevented him from realizing his skills as a surgeon also allowed him to escape to a village. He didn't have to worry about whether he would earn enough money to pay his bills and pay for health insurance. A certain minimum standard was maintained. Nothing of that sort is available today for men who lose their jobs.

And I simply don't believe that the choices are: either the repressive system called “communism”or a totally insecure life within capitalism. I can't see why people cannot be guaranteed a decent life. However, I do not see that we are heading in that direction today. Rather, things are getting worse. The only sign of hope is the willingness of people to go into the streets to express their dissatisfaction with the status quo.

Appendix
“If dating and mating is in fact a market place---and of course it is......”

----added emphasis, Kate Bolick, “All the Single Ladies”, Atlantic Monthly 2011, accessed on line 18.11.2012;

Of course, dating and mating are not a market place...........

Homework assignment for Professor Bolick:
Read and study Chapter Four of Robin Hahnel's The ABC's of Political Economy; A Modern Approach; Pluto Books, London and Sterling VA, 2002.

In brief, the argument I would make is that dating and mating simply are not markets because the conceptual apparatus of markets does not allow for justice, or fairness or anything that a civilized human being cares about. You can conceive of your relationships with human beings in that manner, but you will thereby narrowly reduce (distort/over-simplify) yourself and your friends—and what you are really feeling, thinking.

Recommended Reading

I continue to believe that the most enlightened account of this trend is provided by the therapist, Harriet Fraad. 
http://rdwolff.com/content/letters-and-politics-economist-richard-wolff-and-psychotherapist-harriet-fraad

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