In my mind, "I hate you" is a childish, or overly-dramatic saying.
Nonetheless, a couple of years ago, when pushed into a corner, I could find no better way to register my opposition to the suggestions being made to me.
Moreover, I had, at that time, endured three years of lost autonomy on account of giving in to the suggestions of family members.
Recently apologized to the target of that childish saying. Yet, I worry that an apology went too far.
More words are needed. By saying IHY I did not intend to convey a desire to do harm to the person. Rather, I was engaged in an act of self-defense. I wanted him to cease pushing me. In truth, he had arguments of a sort. But, in actual fact, he also made assumptions I did not share. And, I'd not got the energy to unearth those assumptions. Nor, I think, would he have been interested in discussing them.
In that context, IHY was, whilst childish, probably the best I could have done.
Wednesday, December 25, 2013
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